it’s impossible…

Impossible is just a word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it

Muhammad Ali


I fired the last person who told me it’s impossible.

My heart stopped for a moment when Nisandeh reminded me. Because I told him that it was impossible… not just once.

My mind wandered back to the end of the Breakthrough to Success, right after I broke my board. I remembered being so full of adrenaline and pride… I yelled ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE! 

Somehow I forgot it along the line. I felt embarrassed. 

I told him in the last week…

I can’t do it, I don’t have enough time. 

It’s so hard to combine running a business with being a single mom and renovating my house at the same time. 

I can’t afford it anymore. 

All different ways of saying

1. It’s difficult. 

2. I can’t do it. 

3. it’s impossible.

Nisandeh didn’t fire me. Instead, he took the time to explain what I’m doing when I tell him one of the above sentences – and why it’s keeping me small…

It was one of the most painful, and valuable lessons I got.

I believe, that I can’t do it. I don’t dare to tell him that I don’t know how to do it, or that I lost my enthusiasm and commitment, so instead, I accuse him of giving me too much work.

It’s disempowering

Since you probably also every now and then think that it’s all so difficult, that you can’t do it or that it’s even impossible, let me share what Nisandeh taught me how to change it.

Questions to ask when things look impossible

 Nisandeh asked me the following questions.

1. If my kids’ lives were at stake, could I then do it? 

The answer to this question was yes…

So instead of getting an impossible job, I was just a lazy, whiny kid complaining about the workload. Trying to blame it on somebody else.

This question is just a more confronting way of asking IS IT TRUE? 

2. HOW can I make it possible? 

Changing the question to an open one, helped to start looking at the possibilities… and got my creative juices flowing. Because instead of blocking myself of achieving anything, I started to look at how I would make it happen….. And it was suddenly a lot less hard than I thought.

Telling yourself it’s impossible, keeps you small. Keeps you mediocre. In your comfort zone. 

If you want to Live By Design – life the life you want, you HAVE to deal with this blocking belief.

Did you ever dream of something and keep calling it a dream because you think that it will never happen?

You don’t have to… 

Nisandeh will start teaching again, as you probably heard by now. One of the topics – HOW to make impossible things possible.

If you dare to dream big… and you want to know HOW it is possible to live the life you always dreamed of, make sure you are on the list.

Nisandeh will give an intensive retreat on how to create your Life Plan Design, and make it into reality. How to create a life full of passion and purpose.

If this retreat is exactly what you need, make sure you fill in your details in the form below.

However- the retreat is only for 12 people. And there are thousands of other people on the mailing list. If you want to be part of it, then realize there will be a rigorous admission process… so register, and start thinking… HOW would you make this retreat possible for you? 

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